What is the easiest way to become a leader?

By having a family. In my religion, a husband is a leader in his family and a wife is a leader at home. Thus, when a man is declaring a marital vow to his partner, he’s unofficially a leader. It may sound against the feminism, but there’s further explanation in this context. A man must be respected in the family, in turn he has to cherish his wife, treat her nicely, never speak aloud to her, and help her with her chores. All the decisions are made with mutual agreements .A wife is also a leader in the household. She takes care and educate the children and be the one to depend to when in need. As the person who is mostly at home, the child/ren will look at her mother as a leader, in the absence of the father. The child/ren should feel save because they have someone to depend on. This is a community bounded by love.